I touch
your things gently, and with love.
I fold
them tenderly; stopping to pull them in,
I bury my
face in them, and I inhale.
Like fire
and honey all at once.
So are
you.
Thorns on
roses,
So are
you.
I fold,
and smell and remember.
I tuck,
and I stuff your stuff in this bag.
My heart
encased by heavy weights,
I seal
you away in this heavy bag.
I spray
the bag with fruity mists.
There are
things I want-
NO.
There are
things I need them to know about you
when they open this bag.
You are
more.
You are
more than what they see and what they think.
You are
more.
And
probably less.
It’s ironic,
That your bag should be so neat and organized and put together.
While you are not.
Your
socks are folded neatly in half.
Your toes
were so pointed and poised in those socks.
Like a
ballerina.
You are
not a ballerina.
Nor are
you your mistakes.
Others
will judge you by your mistakes.
You
mustn’t let that define you.
I sort,
and sort, and sort, and come across letters from him with your name stained on each
one.
The letters
on the yellow paper that come from inside bars, and cells, and regret.
I run my
hand across your name and the neat cursive it’s written in.
If only
life were not rigid and messy and hard, but rather,
Rounded
and folded and sealed and safe like this letter.
I know what
you’ve tried to hide within.
I know
those neatly crossed ‘t’s’ and dotted ‘I’s’ make your little heart beat with
pain that is bigger than it can hold.
And I
feel sorry.
Sorry
that I wasn’t less.
Less of a
tucker, less of a burrier, less of a burden to your growth.
I sort,
and fold, and tuck, and pack.
Touching
each item, I try to burn my love in your things,
So, when
you open your bag you will feel my love.
If I
could tuck words into this bag they would be this:
I love
you. You are strong.
You are
strong like your hands that held the weight of your body upside down.
Now so
will I.
I will
hold your weight and give you my strength until you find yours.
I will
raise my voice until you find yours so that you will get what you need.
I will
carry us both, not on my hands because that is your forte, not mine.
But I
will carry us, even when the soles on my shoes wear thin and my feet bleed.
I will
carry on, carrying you until harm is far behind you.
You will
be folded, and tucked, and sealed in my love.
And I
will love you- for both of us.
And my
heart will be the life blood for us both.
And my
lungs will be the breath for us both.
And I
will have carried you in my body twice.
I will
have delivered you to life once more.
Only,
this time your bags are heavier, but I will carry them too.
While we
walk down the healing path we will throw things out of your bags together.
We will
discard all the garbage, and shame, and blame, because those things have no
place here.
And when
your bags are empty, your footing will be steady,
And I’ll
have watched you learn to walk on your own once again.
With your
heart unburdened and untainted, and as pure as it was-
This
birth, you are all the wiser, and your legs are as strong.